Breaking up with Vino
I started therapy because I was breaking up with Vino. If I didn’t get rid of him, or at least try I would become—if I wasn’t already—an alcoholic. My habit of drinking alone in my apartment,...
View ArticleRaw and Disorder
Like an episode from Law and Order: SVU, I woke up one morning to find my apartment the crime scene of debauchery and shame. The evidence: Empty wine bottles on the coffee table along with a half...
View ArticleIn the Shadows
1988 was eventful. A Rustling of Leaves: Inside the Philippine Revolution debuted in independent film festivals everywhere and catapulted its director, Nettie Wild to international recognition. It was...
View ArticleMartial Law, My Father and Me
“You have to pick places you don’t walk away from.”—Joan Didion “Madali tayong makalimot / we forget easily.”—Known Filipino attribute 1971I. The young man in this picture is my father at his...
View ArticleCaviar for Working Folk
1.The popular girls, the ones who always sit by the boulder between the school entrance and the soccer field, like my Cats t-shirt. Where did you get it? The ringleader asks. She’s blond with...
View ArticleNot Your Fetish: The Takedown of Day Above Ground
By now, anyone plugged into any social media network has heard that Los Angeles-based band Day Above Ground (DAG) has removed “Asian Girlz”, the music video Angry Asian Man founder Phil Yu concluded...
View ArticleBeing a Guest in the Feminist Movement
In 1992, my mother joined The Vancouver Feminist Collective* (VFC). In less than four months of her being hired as a program coordinator, she was fired. She did not steal money, physically abuse...
View ArticleRadio-BED: Wall Street Wolves Dressed in Radical Politics
When I posted an interview I conducted with Shannon Gibney from the Radio-BED website—a network of progressive podcasts—onto mine, I didn’t think it was going to cause so much trouble. Disagreements...
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